Divorce: it’s not as scary as it seems

Dear little pandas:

This week we’re going to talk about something that may affect you directly, or  indirectly as something some of your friends are experiencing. First I feel I should point out that each of you is part of something extremely special all the time, when you are at home, having dinner and even when you are playing Panfu. You are always part of a family that loves you very much. There are lots of different types of families; big families, small families, families that all live together and families that live apart.

This week I want to talk about a sensitive subject, divorce. Some of you may have divorced parents or have friends with parents that are separated. The most important thing to remember is that when parents separate, they are doing what they think is the best option for everyone and it doesn’t have anything to do with the children and it certainly cannot be their fault.

Why are my parents getting divorced?

Hearing parents argue and seeing them unhappy isn’t very nice. Although it may be sad to think of them not being together, seeing your parents smile and laugh is definitely much better! You must remember that nothing you have done has made your parents split up. Your parents are still your mum and your dad and always will be. They are having problems with each other, not with you. When parents get divorced or decide to separate it is normally because they are not happy living together anymore and however hard they try, it just isn’t working.

It’s okay for you to be scared, you may also feel sad, angry or confused and this is okay too. Feeling sad is a natural reaction to change and accepting that things won’t be the same as before takes time, but in time the sad feeling will go away. Some children may even feel guilty when their parents’ divorce even though they have nothing to feel guilty about…it is your parents decision to split up and it is not your fault. These feelings often become more frightening if they are kept a secret, talking to your parents, a brother or sister or a friend about how you’re feeling and the things you don’t understand will always make you feel better. I’m sure they will even give you a big hug!

Although it’s hard at the time, sometimes parents separating can lead to all sorts of new and exciting things. Often parents remarry and you may even get new brothers and sisters to play with!

Remember that divorce doesn’t happen to everyone, just because your parents are arguing does not mean they will separate. However you must always remember that when grown-ups argue it is normally over complicated stuff and it is not your fault.

If you are worried about your parents arguing or about separation and divorce there are lots of websites you can visit for support and advice. Click here.

Love & Peace

Your Kamaria

 

So pandas,I think this week Kamaria told us something very important to think on!You better think on ti and listen to her…comment on what you think no this oen pandas!:D

-Agjdf

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